Announcing the Best Dating Advice for Men Product

June 28, 2013 - PRLog -- A quick Google search brings up millions of results for “dating advice for men,” most of which are self-linking spam sites with little by way of real offerings.

That’s why a team of researchers have spent several months poring over how-to guides for men’s dating, confidence building, approaching women and taking overall better care of oneself.

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The results are startling. Nearly 50 percent of every resource out there is a scam, with several fake personas, sometimes covering up for a single name who operates several “different” sites. These scammers offer no real advice, instead only posting vague references to tips on websites and a link to their Paypal accounts.

In the realm of real products, though, the benefits are huge. There is a tightly-knit community of men’s dating help writers, and their verifiability can often be found simply by reading their recommendations on one another’s books. Far from a scam, such authors seek out niche groups of men to help raise up out of their desolate caves of single-hood.

The best how-to products are detailed books, often with extensive websites which reference specific points in the book and tell an engrossing personal story about why they joined the ranks of ladykillers. The Tao of Badass is one of the best products on the web, according to the recent study; it starts as many do, with a lonely man, rarely especially attractive, who decides he wants to turn his dating life around (and by extension his real life). He seeks out the same answers many men do at some point or another. However, he finds few results, or finds that the tips don’t work for him. After months of frustration, he reaches an epiphany, becomes startlingly good with women and decides to write his own book. Though several books’ authors fit this general archetype, the details are telling.

It all ultimately comes down to persistence and knowing what women want. Not knowing what women want might be the number one mistake men would make. Ironically, probably the best way to find what they want is to go out and talk to them, not asking them what they look for in a man, but just talk and "hit on them" in order to see how they react. Asking for a woman's time and attention is like asking for customer's money, you'll always get a brutally honest answer and a reaction because you're basically trying to "take away" something from them. And when you try to take away something from someone, he'll also want to get something in return.

Reputable authors can be sought easily by their credentials and public appearances on TV, in radio interviews and in published editorials. Common tips among useful guide writers will include how to break the ice at a bar effectively, how to avoid being the “sensitive man” who gets friend-zoned early on, how to get women to talk about themselves and perceive you as a good listeners, how to not come off like a creepy jerk, and even tips regarding men’s and women’s psychology that can be learned and used to the man’s advantage.

So before you dismiss all men’s dating advice as identical and generic fluff, take some time to be convinced by the authors themselves. A look into their stories will offer all the authenticity you need.